Updates

So the roommate situation is not what I was expecting...I have such a nice big mouth. I invite this lady to stay with me because she needed a place to stay when she moved from RI to FL. I THOUGHT things would be fine and she would help out with things, monetarily and around the house, cooking/cleaning. Yeah, not so much. I have cooked and cleaned while she sits on my couch doing puzzles. She is spoiled at home and therefore hasn't bothered to lift a finger around here. Kinda frustrating. Keep those fingers crossed that they get a contract on their house. There is a potential buyer and it looks very, very promising. Please, please, please, keep those fingers crossed so I don't have to become a bad guy. I hate being in the position that I am in. Its frustrating. I know I put myself there, but I take people at face value and hope that they have the same morals that I do. That is not the case here.

On a more happy note (happy for me anyway), Karma seems to be showing itself upon what's his name. Had some things happen to him over the weekend and with him not having a job, not sure how he's going to be able to do it all now. HA!! I am just sitting back. It may sound mean and rude, but I am just waiting. Its nice that things are going my way for once.

A decision I don't regret

I made a decision one year ago today to sign my divorce papers. I do not regret doing that for one minute. So much has happened in a years time and things have gotten so much better for me, but not so much for him. I just sit and laugh at all that has happened to him and where I am at in life. I think the only thing I miss the most is companionship. At least there was someone to talk to or just having another presence in the room. Granted he may have fallen asleep, but at least there was another human being to talk to. There is only so much you can talk to the cats before they run away and want to be by themselves. Ha! Anyway, I am glad to be where I am in my life. I am happy, healthy and living life as I should. I get to be picky in my next relationship. Have to go through alot of bad apples to get to the good ones. Hopefully there are is one or two left for me. LOL! Thank you to my friends and family for your support through this life altering decision. Means alot to have your support behind me when needed.

UGH!!

Valentine's Day is ruined for me for a while. When I find someone, I will change my tune, but for now, this made up holiday is ruined for me. Thanks COS!!

Patience is a virtue!

Oy vey! I need to learn to have some more patience. And also to learn when to open my mouth and not open my mouth. I have someone living with me because she moved down here to take the 3rd position that was open in my office. She is the process of moving down here from RI. Her husband is also here, but just for a short amount of time. However, I am trying to figure her out. She is almost expecting to be waited on while here in my home. She has yet to offer to make dinner and I have done all the cooking and cleaning up. WTH?? I'm venting, and will probably vent more as time goes on. These early mornings are killing me. But I will get used to it. I need to get back up and work out anyway, but she makes way too much noise and leaves all kinds of lights on. Oh, its going to be a bumpy ride.

The job is going great by the way. I haven't taken a day off yet, but will soon. I need it!