Update to the updates

Apparently, my email to the ex was "threatening" and he didn't like it too kindly!! He called me last night at 10:20 to tell me that he was very unhappy with my email and the situation that my attorneys have put him in by dragging their feet. And obviously, he doesn't understand the seriousness of the account being overdrawn and the fact that I could lose my job because of it and/or get reprimanded. At least I got his attention. And he finally called me to tell me what was going on. Sorry that you were stupid enough to take a job that you don't get paid unless you sell something, but you told me that this would not effect me or effect you being able to meet your obligation to pay your half of this bill. DUMB ASS!!! Stop making it my problem. Stop being a butt head!!

Updates and misc

Update 1: first PT in the morning....ready to feel better with my back.
Update 2: roomie still driving me crazy...is now sick, thanks to her granddaughter
Update 3: the ex is in violation of our divorce decree and I do not know what to do to fix it, he has not followed through with paying something and is putting my job in jeopardy, knows it, and doesn't seem to care what happens....can't stand this drama!! I just want him to go AWAY!!!

MRI and Misc

Had the MRI done today. Not as bad as I thought it was going to be. Did have to go all the way in the tube though and it was fairly close to my face. I wasn't too keen on that, but I survived. They had a selection of CD's and I picked one and listened to Sting. It was very difficult to lay still for 25+ minutes. I don't know exactly what time I sat down on the table, but I left just before 9am and my appointment was at 8am. I will get the results on Friday from the Dr.

Miscellaneous stuff is just that I am tired of the roommate. She can't be bothered to do anything around here. Don't even get me started on this past Saturday. I can't figure out a way to actually kick her out. It seems as though I have no life anymore. I can't have people over because she gives them dirty looks, i.e., my mom.

Other news is that what's-his-name is a moron and probably going to try and figure out some way to blame me for all of his problems that he has right now, financially anyway. Order was signed, sent to QDRO people and now there is a hold on everything. He wants his money and he can't have it and I am sure that has royally angered him that he has to wait again. Oh well. Your the one who wanted the divorce pal.

He tried, and doesn't know yet, that he failed

So, I have just about had it with my attorny in Georgia. They take their time to do everything. If it wasn't close to being finished, I would have fired them long ago. The reason I say this is because they didn't follow through completely with this whole QDRO properly and almost cost me alot of money. Because they didn't do what they were supposed to do, the 90-day wait period was lifted and WHN (what's-his-name) could have liquidated everything and walked away with giving me nothing. However, he called to tell me this and then told me he would not "screw" me out of my portion that is due to me. RRRIIIGGGHHHTTT!! I am due half of the value of the 401K with the loan that was taken out added back in. For example, a loan was taken out against his 401K because I had lost my job and we needed the money. The amount borrowed was approximately half the value of the 401K, taken out in Oct. 2008, which funded his trip out of the Country, which was the beginning of the end of my marriage. Anyway, the amount of the loan is added back into this portion that is there, and I am due half of the total amount. His brilliant idea was to liquidate and give me what is due to me, which HE calculated to be approximately $6K. WRONG!! I am due alot more than that, and if I had lost the total amount because of these damn attorney's in GA, I would have been screaming bloody murder!

So, he doesn't know it yet, because I'm not calling him or telling him this, but there has been another 90-day waiting period placed on the 401K and I will now be getting what is owed to me. This has been a long time coming, but I am so thankful to Kathie Jo for helping me with keeping the ball rolling as I have. The Order was signed by the judge on March 1 and the QDRO people have it and have placed a stop on anything that can be done to the 401K. Who's gonna have the last laugh now?!?!

Anyway, I am glad to have one more step under my feet for getting him out of my life. We still have a bill to pay together, but there should be no reason to speak unless there is a huge issue with this bill. Only another 2 years, 9 months left to pay on the bill. Pray that I can keep my sanity if I need to deal with him anymore.

He's not going to be happy about the above. He's planning to liquidate and when he does that, he has to pay the loan back out of HIS portion. He was trying to get me to pay a portion of the loan back if he had liquidated the entire amount. I've already paid my portion by liquidating my own 401K and taking the penalties on it. I am not going to do it again. I refuse and he was going to screw me on making me pay anyway. So, 2 years and 9 months can't come soon enough in my opinion. Not that I am counting the days or anything! LOL!

Hope everyone is doing well. Dr's for me tomorrow. Will post something when I know what is going on. Love to you!

Visiting with the Dr

OK, so my back has been hurting me for years...but was told, many years ago, to lose weight. Well, I have done that (to the tune of 60 pounds!) and the pain is still the same and isn't getting any better. Went to the primary care physician and he is sending me to an orthopedic surgeon. I see this guy on Friday. X-rays have been taken of my back and they see nothing wrong with my back bone wise, so this is something a little more in there. It has to be. At times I feel something bulging. And its constantly. Sometimes the pain is bearable, and other times, I am near tears. Will let you know the outcome and whether or not he gives me something.

All is well

Things have gotten better with the roomie, if you will. We had a discussion last week and she has decided to finally start paying rent, except it will be in arrears, but at least she is paying. She spoke to her husband and decided to pay half the rent and half the power bill (water is included in the rent). So things are better, but please, please pray that they sell their house very soon. She is driving me absolutely nuts. At least I don't feel completely used.

Everything else is going well. The job is great. Love it still. Days I need to just walk away from my desk, but overall, it is a great job.

But that's it. No new boys on the horizon. Talking a few, but nothing has panned out just yet. Seems to be that they are only after one thing and its just wrong to be after just that ONE thing.